Let’s talk about something that comes up more often than you’d think…
Have you ever picked up a piece of jewellery, loved it, and then thought, “Do I really need this?” or “Is this a bit selfish?”
I hear this from so many of you, and honestly, I used to feel the same way. However, here’s what I’ve learnt. Buying jewellery for yourself isn’t selfish at all. In fact, it can be one of the most intentional, meaningful things you do. Jewellery isn’t just ‘something pretty.’ It’s something personal. It becomes part of your everyday life, your routines, your memories. It sits with you through the busy days, the quiet moments, the wins, and the growing pains. And that’s exactly why I created Wisteria London.
Jewellery is a quiet way of choosing yourself. We’re so good at showing up for everyone else. Our families, our friends, our work but, when it comes to ourselves we hesitate.
Buying jewellery isn’t about showing off or spending for the sake of it. It’s about choosing something that makes you feel grounded, confident, or comforted. Something that reminds you who you are when life feels loud.
That’s not selfish.
That’ self respect.
Every piece at Wisteria London is designed to mean something, because I believe jewellery should feel like it belongs to you.
🐝 The Sterling Silver Bee
Whether it is one of our necklaces, anklets or earrings, the bee is all about strength, community and knowing your worth.
Bees work tirelessly, yet they’re gentle. They remind us that even when we’re doing a lot for others, our efforts matter. So many of you choose this piece as a reminder that you’re allowed to rest and shine.
Shop: : Sterling Silver Bee Necklace on Bobble Chain | Sterling Silver Bee Huggie Hoop Earrings | Sterling Silver Bee Anklet
🌙✨ The Moon and Star
This piece is for the dreamers.
The moon reminds us that we’re allowed to change, grow and move through phases. The stars remind us that even in darker moments, there’s still guidance and light. It’s such a comforting piece to wear daily.
Shop: Sterling Silver Moon and Star Necklace | Sterling Silver Moon and Star Earrings
🐢The Dainty Sea Turtle
The sea turtle moves through life with patience and purpose. No rushing. No noise. Just steady strength.
This piece is for anyone who needs reminding that it’s okay to go at your own pace, and that slow progress is still progress.
Shop: Moana Sea Turtle Huggie Hoop Earrings | Moana Sea Turtle Necklace
🧩 The Jigsaw Puzzle Piece
This one is deeply personal for many of you. The puzzle piece represents individuality, belonging and self-acceptance. A reminder that you don’t need to ‘fit in’ to be whole and, that every part of you has value.
Shop: Sterling Silver Jigsaw Necklace
🪬 The Hamsa Hand
A beautiful piece with deeper significance, the Hamsa (or Hand of Fatima) has long been worn as a protective symbol, believed to shield the wearer from negative energy and bring good fortune.
Wearing something symbolic like this everyday can feel reassuring and intentional, reminding you that you’re capable, you’re worthy and you’re protected, not because someone give it to you, but because you chose it for yourself.
Shop: Sterling Silver Hamsa Hand Necklace on Bobble Chain | Sterling Silver Hamsa Hand Earrings
💫The Wishbone
The wishbone is such a quiet symbol of hope. People often choose this when they’re starting something new, waiting for good news, or holding onto faith during uncertain times. It’s not about the outcome, it’s about believing in possibility.
Shop: Sterling Silver Wishbone Necklace on Bobble Chain | Sterling Silver Wishbone Earrings
🪃 The Boomerang
The boomerang symbolises resilience and return. What you put into the world always finds its way back.
So many of you choose this as a reminder that kindness, effort and love are never wasted. Or maybe you are going travelling, buy yourself this piece as a reminder that you will always return.
Shop: Sterling Silver Boomerang Necklace
So No, Buying Jewellery Isn’t Selfish!
It’s meaningful.
It’s intentional.
And, sometimes, it’s exactly what we need.
If a piece speaks to you, there’s usually a reason, and you don’t need permission to honour that. At Wisteria London, I don’t want you to just buy jewellery, I want you to find pieces that feel like yours. Pieces that stay with you, grow with you, and remind you of who you are.
And if that’s not a good enough reason to treat yourself…..I don’t know what is 🤍